Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Disappointment

Facebook, entertaining, burning much of my hours on games and random stuff.
Keeping in contact with my friends and family online, sharing all the ongoings and gossips.

Not to mention showing off the great vacation pictures with everyone.

Received a call from Cow this morning, saying that he saw a friend of ours being tagged in an album.
Disappointment, they were in town, just a stone throw from ours.
Despite we've opened our doors to him, sending out our invitation if he ever wanna drop by, he's always welcomed, he hasn't got the time.
He's passed by once, but as he mentioned that he's not familiar with the area, therefore dare not leave his group to wander around.
Fair enough, that's absolutely understandable.


This time he's just a stone throw away, and not even a call.
Are we really such a pest? I felt as though we were not wanted.
It's pretty difficult to describe how I'm feeling at the moment.
A friend of more than 15 years,.... that's all I can say.

On several occasion when I went home, he asked as if with great interest if Cow's going back with me.
I thought he missed him, or maybe I've just read it wrong.

At least now I know.
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***** Responding to some tag on my chatbox in defence:

No I did not expect that friend to come over to ours knowing the fact that he's not familiar with the area. That's just inconsiderate.


I got bad grades for Geography, but I still know that KL is bigger than Singapore. But still, thanks for the reminder.

And if all can be based on assumptions, that it would be convenient for me to assume that from now onwards this friend of mine is either busy at work/ on course/ doing his assignment/ blah blah blah and and not call in case I trouble him.

And yes I'll stop asking, if I do, it just seemed that we're desperate and begging him to come over. No, we are not running a bed and breakfast, we are not desperate for customers. Door closed... Being a homemaker doesn't necessary means I'm boring my mind off, I can jolly well use that time to do things of my interest. It doesn't make a difference if he comes over or not, just felt like pinching myself over why on earth am I getting my blood pressure up over it.

Sigh, case close, I shall speak no more of this matter on my blog. I don't wanna wake up tom with white hair. Vented my anger, off to bed...

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